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Madame de Stael Quotes

Madame de Stael (April 22, 1766 - July 14, 1817)

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Madame de Stael

Madame de Stael - Germaine Necker

Adapted from an image in the public domain.
Madame de Staël, also known as Germaine de Staël, Germaine Necker, and Anne-Louise-Germaine de Staël-Holstein, was the well-educated daughter of a Swiss banker who was a financial advisor to King Louis XVI and a Swiss-French mother whose salon in France was famous. Germaine Necker was married in 1786 in an arranged and loveless match, ending with a legal separation in 1797. Madame de Stael had two children with her husband, another with a lover, and another born just before she secretly married the father, an army officer who was 23 to her 44. Madame de Stael is known for her own salon, for her support of the French Revolution and eventually for the more moderate elements in that, and for her criticisms of Napoleon Bonaparte, who drove her from France knowing that her influence was great. She died on Bastille Day. Madame de Stael was one of the best-known "women of history" to writers in the 19th century, who often quoted her, though she is not nearly so well known today.

Selected Madame de Stael Quotations

• Wit lies in recognizing the resemblance among things which differ and the difference between things which are alike.

• I learn life from the poets.

• O Earth! all bathed with blood and years, yet never / Hast thou ceased putting forth thy fruit and flowers.

• Society develops wit, but its contemplation alone forms genius.

• The human mind always makes progress, but it is a progress in spirals.

• L'esprit humain fait progres toujours, mais c'est progres en spirale

• Search for the truth is the noblest occupation of man; its publication is a duty.

• Far from being reassured, the more I saw of Napoleon Bonaparte, the more alarmed I became .... [H]e is a man without emotions....

• Everything is controlled by one man, and no person can take a step, or form a wish, without him. Not only liberty but free will seems banished from the earth. [after Napoleon banned her book On Germany]

• If it were not for respect for human opinions, I would not open my window to see the Bay of Naples for the first time, whilst I would go five hundred leagues to talk with a man of genius whom I had not seen.

• Genius is essentially creative; it bears the stamp of the individual who possesses it.

• Courage of soul is necessary for the triumphs of genius.

• One must chose in life between boredom and suffering.

• Innocence in genius, and candor in power, are both noble qualities.

• Scientific progress makes moral progress a necessity; for if man's power is increased, the checks that restrain him from abusing it must be strengthened.

• Enthusiasm gives life to what is invisible; and interest to what has no immediate action on our comfort in this world.

• The sense of this word among the Greeks affords the noblest definition of it; enthusiasm signifies God in us.

• Conscience is doubtless sufficient to conduct the coldest character into the road of virtue; but enthusiasm is to conscience what honor is to duty; there is in us a superfluity of soul, which it is sweet to consecrate to the beautiful when the good has been accomplished.

• The voice of conscience is so delicate that it is easy to stifle it; but it is also so clear that it is impossible to mistake it.

• Politeness is the art of choosing among your thoughts.

• The more I see of men the more I like dogs.

• A man must know how to fly in the face of opinion; a woman to submit to it.

• The desire of the man is for the woman, but the desire of the woman is for the desire of the man.

• Men err from selfishness; women because they are weak.

• When women oppose themselves to the projects and ambition of men, they excite their lively resentment; if in their youth they meddle with political intrigues, their modesty must suffer.

• Glory can be for a woman but the brilliant morning of happiness.

• The egotism of woman is always for two.

• Love is the whole history of a woman's life, it is but an episode in a man's.

• There are women vain of advantages not connected with their persons, such as birth, rank, and fortune; it is difficult to feel less the dignity of the sex. The origin of all women may be called celestial, for their power is the offspring of the gifts of Nature; by yielding to pride and ambition they soon destroy the magic of their charms.

• Love is the emblem of eternity; it confounds all notion of time; effaces all memory of a beginning, all fear of an end.

• In matters of the heart, nothing is true except the improbable.

• We cease loving ourselves if no one loves us.

• Sow good services: sweet remembrances will grow them.

• Speech happens to not be his language.

• The greatest happiness is to transform one's feelings into action.

• Be happy, but be so by piety.

• The mystery of existence is the connection between our faults and our misfortunes.

• As we grow in wisdom, we pardon more freely.

• To live beneath sorrow, one must yield to it.

• When we destroy an old prejudice, we have need of a new virtue.

• Gaiety pleases more when we are assured that it does not cover carelessness.

• Frivolity, under whatever form it appears, takes from attention its strength, from thought its originality, from feeling its earnestness.

• The education of life perfects the thinking mind, but depraves the frivolous.

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